After reading this, you will learn a “dangerously” effective
way that you can use to make a girl visit you, even when she
suspects you are “up to something” *winks* But before we
dive into that, let me make something clear.
All the tips I’m about to show you will not work if you’ve not
made a girl interested in you, at least, a bit. But don’t worry,
right here on my website, in my other articles I have
explained how to make girls interested in you. If you’ve been
following my articles then continue reading. But if you’ve not,
make sure you check out my other write ups after reading
this.
In my other articles you will learn some secrets you can use
to make a girl interested in you. Now, let’s start… Shall we?
Getting a girl to visit you is super easy. The problem is that
most guys don’t find it so. You ask a girl to come over and
visit you and she turns you down, giving some flimsy
excuses. Sometimes she agrees to come over and then turns
around to disappoint you. I’ve been there before, till I learnt
how to “trick” my way out of it.
Here is why girls are avoiding your house… It’s because you
are scaring them away. Don’t worry. Let me explain further.
Firstly, a girl will never visit you if she finds you boring (read
my article on “how to talk to girls” to put a stop to being
boring). Secondly, a girl will avoid your house if she notices
you are desperate for her visit. Never ever beg a girl to visit
you. Never give her the impression that she is doing you a
favour by visiting you. You dey get the gist abi? As in, Never
ever ever make a girl feel you are badly in need for her visit.
It scares them like crazy. It gives her this impression that:
“he wants s*x, that is why he has been begging me to visit”.
The best approach is to make it seem you are inviting her
over for something. As in, you have to give her this idea that
she is coming over for a reason. Let me give you an
example. Here is one trick that is damn effective.
You could call a girl up today, after making her interested in
you using all the tips in my eBook, then go like: “Hey, I want
to cook ogbono soup. I need directions abeg. Shebi you can
cook it” Of course she go know. Ask her to give you
directions, then make a show of acting as if you are writing
the directions down. She will find this funny and you both will
have a good laugh as she gives you the direction over the
phone. After she is done with the directions, thank her and
hang up.
Then give her like 30 minutes and call her again. Then say
something like:
YOU: “Haba na. You give me fake directions na”.
HER: “Lol. How”
YOU: “I just finished cooking the soup, it doesn’t draw. you
give me direction for non-drawing ogbono soup? Plus the
soup looks funny. It’s red here and brown there”. If you do
this well, it will make her laugh.
Go ahead and PLAYFULLY tease her: “Haba, we are beefing
o. you for tell you can’t cook ogbono na”. Bla bla bla bla. (If
you’ve read my Ebook then you already know how to tease a
girl) When you two are done laughing over the whole thing.
Tell her you will call her back and end the call. Two days
later, contact her, tell her you feel like eating ogbono soup
the next day. And you wouldn’t want to take a risk again, and
that you really need to learn how to cook the soup. Then
invite her over to TEACH YOU. Not to cook it for you (you
never can tell if she is a feminist who doesn’t like cooking
for guys. Lol). Use the word teach, it’s safer if you’ve been
using the strategies in my eBook on her, she will come. Hope
you got the whole strategy?
Here is the point, directly asking a girl to come and visit you
raises the red flag in her head and makes her wonder what
you are up to. When you give her a reason, it makes her
relaxed. Also, girls don’t like to feel as if they gave in to a
guy’s “temptation”. It makes them feel cheap. But when you
structure your invitation like it’s not a temptation, you make
it easier for her to come – even though she knows it might
still be a temptation.
Some other “reasons” you can give a girl to come over are:.
– “There is this new action movie I got, come over let’s
watch it together. Bring pop corns. I will bring the drinks” –
“Can you play chess? Come over let me teach you. Make
sure you come with note books for note taking”. Are you
getting the pattern here? One; You are inviting her over with
a reason Two; you are making her see you are not desperate
for her visit by playfully giving her conditions for her visit
(eg: bring pop corns) Three; You are sounding as if she will
agree to the invitation. As in, you went ahead to ask her to
bring pop corns without waiting for her to give an answer if
she will come or not.
DISCLAIMER: only use this strategy on a girl you suspect will
turn you down if you directly invite her over. If you are sure
she won’t turn you down, just directly ask her to come and
visit you (no need for the hassle in that case).